BDSM
- Algophilia
- Arousal from experiencing pain
- Amaurophilia
- sexual arousal by a partner whom one is unable to see due to artificial means, such as being blindfolded or having sex in total darkness.
- Amychesiphilia
- Arousal from scratching
- Asthenolagnia
- Arousal from being humiliated or weakness
- Autoflagellation
- Self-inflicted whipping
- Cordophilia
- Arrousal from being bound with ropes or chains and sometimes suspended.
- Dermagraphism
- Arousal from marks left on skin of partner by biting, scratching or sucking
- Electrophilia
- Arousal from electrical stimulus
- Flagellation
- Sexual excitement associated with the act of whipping or being whipped
- Masochism
- Receiving punishment, discipline, humiliation; forced servitude
- Merinthophilia
- Arousal from being bound
- Pageism
- A male submitting to a female
- Rhobdophilia
- Arousal from being flagellated
- Sadism
- Humiliating, punishing, torturing, inflicting pain on others
- Sadomasochism
- taking sexual pleasure in inflicting pain, or having pain inflicted upon one's self. (See also "bondage and discipline" and algolagnia)
- Serviphilia
- sexual arousal from being or acting as a servant
- Vicilangnia
- Arousal from bondage
Body
Body - Bodily Functions
- Asphyxiophilia or Hypoxphilia
- This is sexual arousal caused by loss of control over your ability to breathe. Self strangulation or allowing another person to asphyxiate you.
- Emetophilia
- Arousal from vomit or vomiting
- Galactophilia
- sexual attraction to human milk or lactating women
- Lactaphillia
- Arousal from lactating breasts
- Menophilist
- Arousal from menstruating women
- Olfactophilia or Osmolagnia
- Smells and odors emanating from parts of the body, especially sexual areas
- Salirophilia
- Arousal by ingesting human sweat or saliva
- Tithiolagnia
- Having an orgasm while breastfeeding
- Tithioscopia
- Arousal from watching infant nurse
Body - Body Parts
- Acomoclitic
- Shaved and completely hairless genitals.
- Crurofact
- Arousal from Legs
- Cunnilalia
- Just talking about female genitalia gives this person the proverbial or actual woody.
- Dermaphilia
- Arousal from skin
- Fisting
- aroused by either being the receiver or giver of a hand, fist, or forearm into the rectum or vagina. This also appears to be one of the few fetishes that can be easily pronounced.
- Gomphopothic
- Arousal from the sight of teeth
- Gynelophilious
- Arousal from pubic hair
- Hematolagnia
- sexual attraction to blood
- Hirutophilia
- Arousal from armpit hair
- Hygrophilia
- Arousal from body fluids
- Idrophrodisia
- Arousal from the odor of perspiration, especially from the genitals
- Macrogenitalism
- Arousal from large genitals
- Mammagymnophilia
- Arousal from female breast
- Mascholphilous
- Arousal from armpits
- Nasolingus
- Arousal from sucking the nose of a partner
- Nasophilia
- Arousal to noses
- Oculolinctus
- Aroused by licking their partner's eyeball. I don't think I need to add anything here.
- Oculophilia
- Arousal from eyes
- Odontophilia
- Arousal from teeth
- Podophilia
- Arousal from feet
- Pubephilia
- Arousal from pubic hair
- Pygophilemania or Pygotripsis
- Arousal from kissing buttocks
- Strabismus
- Arousal from the eyes of a partner
- Trichophilia
- sexual arousal from hair
- Tripsolagnia
- Arousal from having hair shampooed
Body - in extremis (need a better name for this category)
- Acrotomophilia or Amelotasis
- sexual attraction to amputees
- Anthropophagy
- Arousal from consuming human flesh or blood
- Apotemnophilia
- This person is sexually aroused by having a part of their body amputated either by themselves or someone else. The memory of the amputation can serve to arouse them for years. It is the act of having an extremity amputated that is arousing; thus, they have to be awake during the process.
- Monopediomania
- Partner with one leg
- Phlebotomy
- Arousal from bloodletting
- Vampirism
- Arousal from consuming blood
Death Sex
- Autoassassinophilia
- The person is sexually aroused by putting themselves in situations in which they may be killed. They really have to feel they are in danger in order to be sexually aroused. Unfortunately, many of them get killed in the process.
- Autonecrophilia
- Imagining oneself as a corpse
- Erotophonophilia or Hornocidophilia
- Lust murder These people are dangerous. They are sexually aroused by attempts not just thoughts of killing someone.
- Necrochlesis
- Sex with a female corpse
- Necromania
- Corpses and death
- Necrophilia
- Arousal from sex with the dead
- Symphorophilia
- Stage-managing a disaster and then observing it
- Taphephilia
- Arousal from being buried alive
Dirty And Excretory
Dirty - Cleanliness
- Automysophulia
- Arousal from being dirty or defiled
- Defilement
- Arousal from seeing partner or self becoming wet or dirty
- Mysophilia
- The person is sexually aroused by dirt, mud, or Something soiled or filthy (i.e., underwear, menstrual pads)
- Osphresiolagnia
- Arousal from rank odors
Dirty - Feaces
- Chezolagnia
- Masturbating while defecating
- Coprograph
- Creating graffiti about excrement
- Coprolagnia
- Thinking about, seeing, smelling, or handling feces
- Coprophagia
- Eating and ingesting human feces.
- Coprophilia
- Arousal associated with the act of defecation
- Defecolagnia
- Arousal from defication
- Eproctophilia
- Arousal from flatulence
- Flatuphilia
- Arousal from having partner pass gas
Dirty - Urine
- Ondinisme
- Arousal from urine
- Renifleur
- Arousal from the smell of urine or sniffing underwear
- Urolagnia
- OR Undism sexual attraction to urine
- Urophilia
- Being urinated upon or swallowing urine
Objects
- Agalmatophilia
- sexual attraction to statues or mannequins or immobility
- Albutophilia
- Arousal from water
- Antholagnia
- Arousal from smelling flowers
- Balloon fetishism
- Arousal from baloons, or popping baloons
- Galateism
- Sexual attraction to statues
- Hemotigolagnia
- Arousal from bloody sanitary pads
- Hierophilia
- Arousal from sacred objects
- Iconolagny
- Arousal from pictures of statues or nude people
- Pediophilia
- Arousal from dolls
- Plushophilia
- sexual attraction to stuffed toys
- Pyrophilia
- sexual arousal through watching, setting, hearing/talking/fantasizing about fire.
- Robot fetishism
- Rubber fetishism
- Siderodromophilia
- Arousal from trains
- Sitophilia
- Arousal from food
- Spectrophilia
- Arousal from images in mirror OR spirits and ghosts
- Timophilia
- Arousal from gold or wealth
- Transformation fetish
- sexual arousal from depictions of transformations of people into objects or other beings
- Undinism
- Arousal from water
Objects - Clothing
- Altocalciphilia
- Arousal from high heels
- Andromimetophilia or Andromimesis
- A woman who is sexually aroused by impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man.
- Autogynephilia
- Arousal form crossdressing
- Dendrophilia
- Arousal from tree or fertility worship of them
- Diaper fetishism
- sexual arousal from diapers
- Doraphilia
- Arousal from fur, leather, or skin
- Eonism
- Male cross-dressing
- Endytophilia
- Arousal from partners who are clothed
- Gynemimetophilia
- Having a sexual partner who is a transvestite or male-to-female transsexual
- Gynemimesis
- Impersonating a woman
- Hyphephilia
- Touching or feeling skin, fur, hair, leather, or fabric
- Panty fetishism
- Retifism
- Women's shoes
- Spandex fetishism
- Thesauromania
- Compulsion to collect object or clothing belonging to females
- Transvestism or Transvestophilia
- Cross-dressing
Partner Preferences
Partner Preferences - Age
- Alphamegamia
- Arousal from having a partner of a different age group
- Anililagnia
- Arousal from a older female partner
- Blastolania
- Arousal from younger females
- Catamites
- Young gay male lovers
- Ephebophilia
- sexual attraction to adolescents
- Gerontophilia
- The person is only sexually aroused by a significantly older person. There has to be at least a 15 year difference between their ages.
- Graophilia
- Arousal from a older person
- Hebephilia
- Teenagers
- Matronolagnia
- Arousal from an older female partner
- Nepiophilia
- The person is sexually aroused by infants. This can range from newborns to about two years old.
- Pederasty
- Adolescent males
- Pedophilia
- Arousal from young children
Partner Preferences - Family
- Fretrilagnia
- Arousal from having sex with one’s brother
- Matrincest
- Sexual action with one’s mother
- Patrolagnia
- Sex with one’s own father
- Sororilagnia
- Sex with one’s own sister
- Thygatria
- Sex between father and daughter
Partner Preferences - Innate Attributes
- Allotriorasty
- Arousal from partner of different nationalities or races
- Anasteemaphilia
- Arousal from a shorter or taller partner
- Androgynophilia
- Arousal from Bisexuals or Bisexual orientation
- Dysmorphophilia
- Arousal from deformed or physically imparted partners
- Macrophilia
- sexual attraction to giants
- Miscegenation
- Sex between races
- Morphophilia
- Peculiar body shapes and sizes are sexually arousing such as heavy, short, dwarfism, etc.
- Nanophilia
- Sexual Attraction to a short partner
- Parthenophilia
- Sexual desire for virgins
- Phallophilia
- This person only wants penises of unusual size, namely gargantuan.
- Saliromania
- Filth, ugliness, deformity
- Stupprator
- Male aroused by virgins
- Xenolimia
- Arousal from strangers
- Xenophilia
- sexual attraction to foreigners or aliens
Partner Preferences - Morphable Attributes
- Cratolagnia
- Arousal from the strength of partner
- Coulrophilia
- Sexual Attraction to Clowns
- Maiesiophilia
- sexual attraction to childbirth or pregnant women
- Maieusiophilia
- Arousal from pregnant women
- Multiphilia
- Recurrent short-term limerance (i.e., falling in love with new partners)
- Nosolagnia
- Arousal from knowing partner has a terminal illness
- Pornolagnia
- Prostitutes
- Somnophilia
- The person can only maintain sexual arousal while having sex with someone who is sleeping. If the person wakes up they loose interest.
- Sthenolagnia
- Arousal from demonstrations of strength or muscle
- Stigmatophilia
- A partner who is tatooed or scarified, or having oneself tatooed, particularly in the genital area
Situations
Situations - Actions
- Capnogalia
- Arousal from watching others smoke
- Choreophilia
- Dancing oneself to orgasm
- Crush fetishism
- sexual arousal from seeing small creatures being crushed by members of the opposite sex, or being crushed oneself
- Ecdemolagnia
- Arousal from traveling or being away from home
- Frotteurism
- sexual arousal through rubbing one's self against a non-consenting stranger in public
- Gregomulcia
- Arousal from being fondled in a crowd
- Hodophilia
- Arousal from traveling
- Homilophilia
- Arousal from giving or hearing sermons
- Neophilia
- Arousal from novelty or change
- Normophilia
- Arousal by acts considered normal by their religion or society
- Ochlophilia
- Arousal from being in a crowd
- Pecattiphilia
- Arousal from sinning
- Phobophilia
- Arousal from hate or fear
- Psycholagny
- Arousal from psychic or mental stimulation
- Zelophilia
- Arousal from being jealousy
- Zoophilia
- Note the dupliate definition! The person wants to be treated like an animal wearing a collar and even eating out of an animals dish. This is different from bestiality in which the person wants to have sex with an animal.
Situations - Ageplay
- Adolescentilism
- The person is aroused by impersonating both the dress and behavior of an adolescent.
- Autonepiophilia
- Impersonating an infant or being treated as a baby (also called infantilism)
- Juvenilism
- Impersonating a juvenile and being treated as such by a sexual partner
Situations - Ambient
- Barosmia
- Arousal from smell
- Lygerastia
- Arousal from darkness
- Melolagnia
- Arousal from music
- Psychrophilia
- Arousal from being cold
- Renifleurism
- Particular smells
- Thalpotentiginy
- Arousal from heat
Situations - Danger
- Acrophilia
- Arousal from heights and high altitudes
- Agonophilia
- Arousal from your partner pretending to struggle
- Biastophilia or Raptophilia
- In this paraphilia the person is sexually aroused by the idea of being raped. This is scripted and planned out ahead of time with a partner. The person does not actually want to be raped by a strange.
- Chremastistophilia
- This person gets off on the idea of being robbed. Say chremastistophilian three times fast, I dare you.
- Chrematistophilia
- This person can only become sexually aroused if they are being blackmailed into it.
- Chrematistophilia
- Person aroused by having to pay for sex, or from being robbed
- Chrematisophilia
- Being charged or forced to pay for sexual services
- Harpaxophilia
- sexual arousal from being robbed
- Hybristophilia
- sexual arousal to people who have committed crimes, in particular cruel or outrageous crimes
- Infibulation
- Arousal from mutilation of one’s own genitals
- Kleptolagnia
- Arousal from stealing
- Kleptophilia
- Similar to kleptomania, kleptophilia results in sexual arousal from stealing not just thrill seeking.
- Mazoperosis
- Mutilation of breasts
- Phygephilia
- Arousal from being a fugitive
- Picquerism
- Sexual gratification from repeated stabbings or wounding of another person
- Rapism
- Meeting resistance of a nonconsenting victim to a sexual assault
- Traumaphilia
- Arousal from wounds or trauma
- Vorarephilia
- sexual attraction to being eaten by or eating another person
Situations - Group
- Allorgasmia
- Arousal from fantasizing about someone other than you partner
- Candalagnia
- Arousal from watching your spouse have sex with someone else
- Martymachlia
- Group sex
- Pluralism
- Arousal from engaging in sex with groups
- Polyiterophilia
- Repetition of the same activity many times with many partners
- Troilism
- sexual arousal from the idea of three-party sex OR Observing one's partner having sex with another
Situations - Intimate
- Basoexia
- Arousal from kissing
- Dacrylagnia
- Arousal from seeing tears in the eyes of a partner
- Gynonudomania
- Arousal from ripping clothes off of other people
- Knismolagnia
- Arousal from tickling
- Naphephilia
- Arousal from being touched or touching
- Nymphomani Satyriasis
- aroused by the uncontrollable desire of woman/men for sex
- Odaxelangnia
- Arousal from biting
- Osculocentric
- Arousal from kissing
- Sarmassophilia
- Arousal from kneading flesh
- Tantaloglagnia
- Arousal from teasing
- Thlipsosis
- Arousal from pinching others
- Trisophilia
- Arousal from massage
Situations - Medical
- Catheterophila
- The person is sexually aroused by the insertion of a catheter.
- Dental Fetishism
- Arousal from reciving dental treatments
- Klismaphilia
- Arousal from giving or receiving an enema
Exhibitionistic
Exhibitionistic - Verbal
- Coprolalia
- Arousal from hearing obscene language
- Ecouteurism
- Listening to accounts of, or observing, sexual encounters
- Erotolalia
- Obscene talk
- Jactitation
- Arousal from talking to others about their own sexual exploits
- Medolalia
- talking about everything phallus.
- Moriaphilia
- Arousal from telling sexual jokes
- Narratophilia
- Using or hearing dirty or obscene words or reading or listening to erotic narrative in the presence of a sexual partner
- Pornographomania
- Writing sexually obscene material and graffiti
- Telephoneatologia
- being sexually aroused by making obscene telephone calls
- Telephone scatophilia
- Talking about sexual or obscene matters to an unknown listener over the telephone; recent variant is computer scatophilia
- Telephonicophilia
- Talking dirty on the phone or being talked to lewdly.
- Scatophilia
- Talking about sexual or obscene matters to an unknown person
Exhibitionistic - Sexual
- Agoraphilia
- Arousal from open space or having sex in public
- Agrexophilia
- Arousal from others knowing you are having sex
- Allopellia
- Arousal from watching other people in sexual activities
- Amomaxiphilia
- Arousal from sex in a parked car
- Autoagonistophilia
- Being observed or appearing on stage or in film while engaged in sexual activity
- Mixophilia
- The person likes to watch their partner or themselves engage in sexual activity. Usually this means watching themselves in a mirror.
- Mixoscopia or Mizoscopia
- Watching others engage in sexual intercourse
- Ordune
- Arousal from photographs of sex
- Parascopism
- Voyeurism, like through bedroom windows
- Pictophilia
- Viewing erotic pictures, films, or other images alone or with a partner
- Voyeurism
- Covertly watching another person undressing or engaging in sexual activity
Exhibitionistic - Bodily Exposure
- Apodysophilia or Exhibitionism
- Arousal by exposing ones genitals to an unsuspecting stranger
- Autagonistophilia
- Unlike exhibitionism where the person intentionally exposes their genitals to an unsuspecting stranger, in this paraphilia the person creates situations in which other people could see them in the nude if the person wanted to. For example, it would be like leaving your curtains open and walking around the house naked in hopes that someone would peep in the windows. It is the thought that someone may be watching that is sexually arousing.
- Autoscopophilia
- Aroused by looking at one's own body or genitals
- Ecdyosis
- Arousal from removing clothing in front of other people
- Exhibitionism or Peodeiktophilia
- Publicly exposing one's genitals
- Gymnophilia
- Turned on by nudity.
- Iantronudia
- Arousal from exposing oneself to a physician
- Omolagnia
- Arousal from nudity
- Scoptophilia
- passive -Having other people view one's genitalia active -Viewing sexual acts or others' genitalia
- Scopophilia
- Arousal from being stared at
Zoophilia and other non-human
- Archnephilia
- Arousal from spiders
- Formicophilia
- Sexual arousal is caused by having insects crawl on their genitals.
- Toonophilia
- Sexual arousal with anthropromorphic characters
- Mixoscopia bestialis
- Watching someone have sex with an animal
- Necrozoophilia or Necrobestiality
- sexual attraction to the corpses or killings of animals, or
- Ophidiophilia
- Arousal from snakes
- Zoolagnia
- Oral contact with animals or smell of animals
- Zoophilia or Beastiality
- Arousal from sex with animals
- Zoosadism
- Inflicting pain on animals
